LIFE OF A FANGIRL

 They say we are different. They say we are not normal. They say we are obsessed. They say we are hermits.

They say it all correct. Life of a fangirl has never been easy. Balancing between the real and the fantasy world. Do you think it’s easy? Yes, it is. Fan girling is not about obsessing over someone, it’s about living with them in our parallel world. It’s about finding a comfort in them. Not every person finds a person who is their home but some do find them in the figures they’ve never met. 

It’s a bit crazy to think that we are living in a fantasy world. But sometimes, this is not a person’s choice, it’s the need of the hour. A defence system. A full proof defence system. It’s hard to believe how a person you have never met can give you comfort in your tough times but trust me we, fangirls have got a supreme level of imaginative powers. 

The comfort comes along with other consequences. As we cannot neglect the fact that we live in the real world. Their actions sometimes might hurt as well but the balance comes right at that point. They have got their life. They gonna live their life. They are with you in your fantasy world not in the real world. Some people might find the idea of parallel world, fantasy world a bit vague but for the fangirls it’s their ‘casa’. We cry when they cry, we smile when they smile, we are happy when they are happy. It’s not easy to be happy and sad for the person you have never met. We pray for their happiness, do you think normal people think about other’s good in today’s time? C’mon say it with your hands on your heart. So, clearly we aren’t normal. 

Yes we’re hermits because the real world sometimes can be a bit more harsh than what we can take. It’s a reflex to bounce back. A turtle gets into his shell seeing the danger around. So what’s wrong with us. What’s wrong with being a hermit? 

Fangirling is a healing process. We heal with them. We heal through their help. They know all our secrets without actually knowing it. How crazy is that///

Meet my comfort

‘‘MI CASA’’

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